Look on the sandwich event page, the plan for 100 page and the related recipes and all of these foods are discussed. For turkey dinners in particular, there is a very large selection of articles on planning and preparing at the top of the big pots index. But you both need to read my article about catering your own wedding first. 300 or 400 people require 3-4 cooks at $35 per hour, 18-24 serverds for buffet style, moree for sit down, at $100+ each and an enormous amount of planning, not to mention food, equipment rental, etc. etc. Get married at 1 pm, have desserts and tea snacks and champagne, or 7 pm and have a live band and dancing and cake and desserts and champagne with a few hot hor dowvres catered. Please don't let a dinner overwhelm the marriage itself; if you try to do it by yourself for this many, it will.

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